“Having a constructive conversation often leads to success on both ends. Wanting to learn why another person feels the way they do is wise in all ways.”

  Opinions are judgements formed about something, and they are not always based on facts. It is simply nature for everyone to have their own opinions, but when it comes to opposing views, it is important to know how to state your opinion respectfully.

   Talking about opposing views may lead a conversation toward an argument. However, being able to properly voice why you feel the way you do can prevent that from happening. Before the conversation even starts, asking your conversation partner if they are comfortable with having the conversation comes first. Keeping an open mind and being understanding are also important first steps. While listening to the opposing view, attempt to find something that is agreeable. When your partner is talking, limit interruptions. When stating one’s opinion, using real life situations or quotes from others is extremely beneficial.

   When opinions turn into morals, the approach to the conversation may be different. It is important to establish boundaries before conversing about opposing views. You need to be able to back up your argument without putting down their opponents. Put research into statistics, back the argument with facts and numbers. A debate needs premises and conclusions, ensure that the statements are valid and true. When talking about the opponents’ view, facts should be provided in a non-biased way.

   Opinions do not need facts to be valid, but for a debate, the right information is crucial. Research needs to be done for both viewpoints.

   Other factors to keep in mind are confidence and body language. The way the conversation is approached determines the tone for the debate. Being confident with an opposing viewpoint while staying calm leads to a successful conversation. Taking time and being patient is needed. Remember what the conversation means to oneself and if it is worth the risk of an argument. Having a constructive conversation often leads to success on both ends. Wanting to learn why another person feels the way they do is wise in all ways.